When did getting dressed become such a chore?

Fall back in love with your clothes ~ and yourself. Become your own personal stylist: someone who gets dressed with ease every morning, loves what she owns, and shows up as her most confident self.

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Rajka Haden the Dress Up Mom smiling wearing gold earrings and embroidered top

Hi, I'm Rajka.

My mission is to help women become their own personal stylist ~ someone who knows exactly what belongs in her wardrobe, gets dressed with ease every morning, and shops with intention instead of impulse. I started my YouTube channel to share my lifelong passion for fashion, sustainable style, and the joy of dressing with intention.

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The Dress Up Style Reset ~ Now Available

The self-paced course is live. 14 lessons. All the tools, the process, and the confidence to become your own personal stylist. Start today.

Rather learn alongside others? Live group coaching and private group options are also available.

Enroll in the Course — $127

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I had the great privilege of working with Rajka for a month, and the clarity I gained regarding my personal style was invaluable. Before we started, I felt uninspired by my closet; four weeks later, I feel empowered and excited by the options I already own. My entire approach to shopping has shifted. As a former shopaholic, I am now committed to buying less but better, focusing on filling wardrobe gaps with intention and sustainability. Every item I purchase must now pass my personal style criteria and quality assessment (allowing me to buy less, but better). Rajka's passion and warmth make every session a joy. I couldn't recommend her expertise more highly ~ you will leave feeling educated, inspired and looking amazing!

~ Angie B.
The style reset program made me feel excited about getting dressed in the morning again. It helped me refine exactly what looks make me feel good, how to dress with more ease, and pushed me to try new things out of my comfort zone. Rajka is super knowledgeable about all things fashion and was able to answer specific questions from each student. It was fun meeting the other women in the small cohort too ~ we bonded over shared feelings and learnings. Overall it was just the refresh I needed and I'm very glad I was able to join!

~ Tiana H.
One of the most valuable parts of The Dress Up Style Reset was cleaning out my closet with a new perspective. Instead of feeling guilty or overwhelmed, I finally understood what fit my style identity and what no longer served me. I loved the outfit play and style experiments. Trying new combinations with pieces I already owned helped me see my wardrobe in a completely different way. I found outfits I never would have thought to put together and began to have fun getting dressed again. I also appreciated the focus on sustainable style. Her message to “buy less, choose well, and love what you own” completely changed the way I think about shopping and my closet. I feel more confident, more intentional, and much happier with what I already have.

~ Teresa R.

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