When did getting dressed become such a chore? Fall back in love with your clothes ~ and yourself. Become your own personal stylist ~ someone who gets dressed with ease, loves what she owns, and shows up as her most confident self.

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About Rajka

My name is Rajka Hayden and my mission is to help women become their own personal stylist ~ someone who knows exactly what belongs in her wardrobe, gets dressed with ease every morning, and shops with intention instead of impulse. I started my YouTube channel in my late fifties to share my lifelong passion for fashion ~ finding, altering, styling and caring for the unique pieces I own. I also share other aspects of life I care about ~ sustainable style, shopping small, going gray, hair and skincare, home decor, and travel.

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Join The
Dress Up
Style Reset

Join 6~8 like-minded women for a 4~week live coaching journey where you'll develop the skills to become your own personal stylist. You'll define your style identity, refresh your closet with intention, build outfit formulas that work for your real life and your real body, and learn to shop smarter ~ spending less and loving everything you own. It's not about trends. It's a skill you'll use for the rest of your life.

Investment: $497 (Founding Member rate ~ price increases after first cohort)

So, join me as we have fun and dress it up a little!

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  • I had the great privilege of working with Rajka for a month, and the clarity I gained regarding my personal style was invaluable. Before we started, I felt uninspired by my closet; four weeks later, I feel empowered and excited by the options I already own. My entire approach to shopping has shifted. As a former 'shopaholic, I am now committed to buying less but better, focusing on filling wardrobe gaps with intention and sustainability. Every item I purchase must now pass my personal style criteria and quality assessment (allowing me to buy less, but better). Rajka's passion and warmth make every session a joy. I couldn't recommend her expertise more highly - you will leave feeling educated, inspired and looking amazing!

    ~ Angie B.

  • The style reset program made me feel excited about getting dressed in the morning again. It helped me refine exactly what looks make me feel good, how to dress with more ease, and pushed me to try new things out of my comfort zone. Rajka is super knowledgeable about all things fashion and was able to answer specific questions from each student. It was fun meeting the other women in the small cohort too - we bonded over shared feelings and learnings. Overall it was just the refresh I needed and I'm very glad I was able to join!

    ~ Tiana H.

  • The community aspect was really great. It felt like a guided girl talk that really made us delve deep into the topics. I've already incorporated some of your tips/tricks! I bought some casual shoes and a new top with a pattern! Definitely went outside my comfort zone and got a ton of compliments on it today :)

    ~ Danielle G.

  • I am so thankful for the group and so happy to have learned so much! I pushed myself way past my comfort zone and am excited to play with the new found confidence! Thank you for starting such a wonderful program.

    ~ Kattie H.

  • No matter what your level of expertise in fashion styling, The Dress Up Style Reset will boost your confidence and help you capture the type of style that reflects your lifestyle and what is most flattering for your body. In four, one hour sessions, Rajka shares her vast knowledge and proven tips to help anyone rework their own closet to make dressing decisions simple and foolproof; because you will have identified what clothes and styles look best on YOU. Rajka's “10 Closet Questions” really helped me clear out the dead weight items and to make space for my favorite and best fitting items to stand out. I also felt her mini homework assignments kept me focused, engaged and excited to share my discoveries at each session. Rajka also shared her passion for shopping sustainably and how to make vintage or thrifting a part of your shopping habit. Kudos to Rajka ,aka The Dress Up Mom, for creating this worthwhile course. I highly recommend it!

    ~ Julie F.

  • One of the most valuable parts of The Dress Up Style Reset was cleaning out my closet with a new perspective. Instead of feeling guilty or overwhelmed, I finally understood what fit my style identity and what no longer served me. I loved the outfit play and style experiments. Trying new combinations with pieces I already owned helped me see my wardrobe in a completely different way. I found outfits I never would have thought to put together and began to have fun getting dressed again. I also appreciated the focus on sustainable style. Her message to “buy less, choose well, and love what you own” completely changed the way I think about shopping and my closet. I feel more confident, more intentional, and much happier with what I already have.

    ~ Teresa R

  • I wore my new blazer for my meetings this morning and I felt like the ultimate boss b*tch. Clothing really makes such a difference!! Thank you for all your help.

    ~ Angie B.

Have fun and dress it up a little!